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Bliss, then Blue: L.A. Times Article on The Boyfriend Log

    “You’re so much fun. So handsome,” I said to Bernie over dinner. We’d met on a blind date the week before and struck sparks. “How is it that you’re still single? What’s your deal?” Bernie froze, looked down at his plate, then zeroed in on me with his hazel eyes. “I disappear.” “What do […]

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Cold nights, warm hearts

…and other things we love right now A good relationship feels “flooded by daylight.” – Charlotte Davis Kasl Relationship wisdom As the the days get shorter, and the nights get colder, we can still get light and warmth from a good relationship. One way to keep the daylight in your love life is to avoid the […]

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You don’t need to settle

….and other things we love right now Relationship wisdom When you want to be wise in relationships, it helps to keep your Fundamental Human Rights in mind. The following things are not too much to ask—they are your right: You have the right to be treated with respect. You have the right to express your feelings, […]

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Staying safe, marrying well

….and other things we love right now “Without friendship, Jim and I are not much more than two very different, stressed-out adults living in the same house with a lot of bills, cranky children, and dirty floors. With it we become two people engaged with one another, interested in the day’s happenings, and tangled in one […]

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Secret relationship glue

…and other things we love right now “To the people who love you, you are beautiful already. This is not because they’re blind to your shortcomings but because they so clearly see your soul. Your shortcomings then dim by comparison. ” ― Victoria Moran Relationship wisdom Research has shown that kindness, along with emotional stability, is the […]

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Your beautiful differentness

…and other things we love right now “If you celebrate your differentness, the world will, too. It believes exactly what you tell it—through the words you use to describe yourself, the actions you take to care for yourself, and the choices you make to express yourself. Tell the world you are a one-of-a-kind creation who came […]

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BFL hits apple’s bestseller’s list:)

Doing a little happy dance around here today. We’ve been climbing the sales charts at apple, and today we’re #5. (Last night we were at lucky #13.) This is all new to me, but I’m guessing it’s no different than book bestseller lists–meaning, it’s a good thing. More important, though, are the emails I’m getting […]

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I’m so glad you’re here.

Seriously. What started out as a mere thought a year ago—I wonder if I can turn my diary into an app so women everywhere can make sense of their love lives like I did?—is now, seemingly miraculously, an iPhone app! Okay, it took a crap-ton of work (that’s a technical term), but it still feels […]

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